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August 9, 2010

Parallel Universes Help Predict the Future

Filed under: Articles, Ideas — Tags: , , — Roy Daya @ 05:07

Can Parallel Universe Theory Help Predict the Future?

Some theories talk about the universe as in a constant state of quantum flux (Heraclitus and Parmenides jump to mind so this idea is being recycled for a long time…). Parallel universe theories further suggest that with every decision point a new parallel universe is created for every path not taken.

For example if you grab a cookie and eat it, immediately there is a parallel universe created where you did not eat that cookie and remained thin and beautiful. Or if you save someone from drowning you created an alternative parallel universe where you let him die.

This is cool to think about but apart from messing up with our mind has no real perceived impact on our life experience and does not further our understanding of the universe around us. It’s just another crazy idea that cannot be proven nor can it be refuted.

What if we can find a way for this to become relevant to our own lives?

Let’s add another assumption. As this is already just a crazy idea, making it just a little more crazy cannot harm.

I have a theory that almost all these spontaneously created parallel universes collapse to cancel each other as they are created. All but the one that we experience currently which may also help predicting the future if we understand what prevents a collapse at a decision point. Much like light is reflected from a mirror to all angles but we only see it at 90 degrees because the other reflections cancel each other out.

If we believe the parallel universe theory it means we should eliminate our legal system as our actions have no meaning. Whatever we choose there are infinite number of alternative versions of us on other parallel universes going through all the other possible options and facing every possible consequence.

Doing something good means you force an alternative you that was about to do that good thing to take an evil alternative because you eliminated that option for him. If you do something evil, you are causing an alternative you to do something good by eliminating that option from his alternatives.

If we look into my addition that all these universes collapse and disappear but a chosen one we are both allowing parallel universes as well as maintaining a single timeline that is edited from shots chosen from un-collapsed parallel universe for each decision point.

The question that becomes interesting for our real existence is what can make one parallel universe to collapse and another to survive and continue our experience of life as we know it.

It is not a question of good or bad or morality as becomes painfully obvious from our existence…
What can it be?

Can we predict what will happen in the future by understanding which quantum parallel alternative will survive? Can we map
the future according to the magnetic signature of our decisions or some other freaky criteria?

Think about it…

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March 29, 2010

The fastest way for me to become fluent in a new language

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 04:25

Mastering a new language takes years. I wanted to find a way to rapidly learn the relevant parts of the language that will allow me to express myself and exchange views on topics I care about. I looked for a shortcut as I thought that I could get away with only learning the most common phrases and words and be able to express myself in months and not years. Finding the lists of most common phrases or words is not very difficult today with all the available online texts that can be statistically analyzed. There are also many pre-existing frequency lists. The problem with these frequency lists is that they cover the most common texts for the people that wrote the underlying texts, not mine.

The advantage of such a list is that it gives a scope that one can master in a few months. The disadvantage is that even if you know the most used words you can’t build a proper sentence or express yourself in what is relevant to your own thoughts.

I thought about why I want to learn a new language. The answer for me was to learn to express my thoughts and discuss things that interest me.

So, for me the most obvious first step is to create in a language I know a summary of what I want to discuss in a new language. Then I will get it translated and spend a month or two learning it in each new language.

I thought about the outline and topics that I should prepare and came up with this list of topics. I hope it can be a useful starting point for anyone that wants to take a similar route.

1) An elevator pitch about myself. A short (half a page?) bio about who I am, what I do, Where I am from, where and when I was born and where I grew up. A short description of my main hobbies and traits.

2) Things that I like.

3) Things I don’t like

4) My detailed CV (2-3 pages)

5) Topics I like to talk about:
5.1) Topic 1 - Topic overview (one page)
5.1.1.1-5.1.1.n ) Statements I want to make about the topic, quotes etc.
5.1.2.1-5.1.2.n ) Questions I want to ask about a topic with some possible answers

6) People
6.1.1) Person name and relation to me
6.1,2) His or her short bio
6.1.3.1 - 6.1.3.n) Shared experiences or anecdotes
6.1.4.1 - 6.1.4.n) Short simulated dialogs with this person (to help create example for wide variety of dialogs with different types of people such as business partners, friends and family)

7) My plans for the  future

8) Trips
8.1 - 8.n) Simulated Trip Place (for example coffee shop or convention center)
8.1.1.1 - 8.1.1.n) Statements about each location and sentences unique to that type of location.
8.1.2.1 - 8.1.2.n) Simulated dialogs in each location for most common things I would need to talk about there.

9) General
9.1) Numbers
9.2) Dates
9.3) Relativity statements (left, right, up, down, big, small, good, bad…)
9.4) Units (weight, height, currency, etc.)
9.5) Places (both type of places such as restaurant or hotel as well as specific places)

This is just an initial brain dump… I would love to get responses before I sit and actually build my personal vocabulary trainer and translate it.

I am aiming for about 30 pages of text that will give me a good foundation to express myself in other languages and that I should be able to master in a couple of months per language.

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February 10, 2010

The Right To Choose

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 05:03

“Management is all about choices, success in management depends on good choices.” – Roy Daya

CRISIS! Your team finds a possible solution and you have to decide if to implement it or not… whichever you decide you must decide NOW!

You know you cannot ignore the crisis but the risk of the proposed solution seems almost as high if it goes wrong…

What should you do?

Step 1 – Getting Choices

When you are faced with only one solution you have no real choice. Step 1 is to get some more choices.

Sometimes you start with several choices but most of them get “narrowed-down” almost immediately. At the end you end up with the least bad choice as the only alternative to doing nothing.

You can only choose when you have more than one plausible choice!

Step 2 – Getting GOOD Choices

To get good choices you need a larger choice pool to choose from.

You need 2 kinds of people on your team:

Creative and fast thinking people to come up with many creative choices and alternatives.

Deep thinkers to sort the potentially Good choices from the ones that are not viable.

Step 3 – Evolution

Create at-least 3 teams.

Each one will mature a solution with details and scenarios and will challenge the other solutions.

Bring each team as a consulting team to help the second team answer criticisms of the third team to their solution.

Make each team present the pros and cons of their solution and weather it is a real viable solution to the problem.

Step 4 – Exposure

Bring in a panel of experts and let them meet each team and:

Improve the choice

Spot hidden risks

Rank choice according to their experience and expertise.

Step 5 – Make a decision

Review the summary of the 3 or more GOOD choices and make a decision.

You might decide to not implement any of them or to try implementing a hybrid solution.

The choice is yours.

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I will not advise you what to choose…

I will not analyze every possible choice to extreme depth…

I will help you to better define the problem and simplify complex situations and logical dilemmas.

I will brainstorm with you and your team and will create a large pool of possible choices that your team can work with.

I will make it possible for you to make a good choice by choosing from more than one good option.

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December 20, 2009

Motivating Low-Income Students to Excel in Studies

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 10:05

It is a well known fact that education is one of the strongest forces behind economical growth both for individuals and for nations. Students coming from low-income families have many pressures that arise from their immediate survivability concerns and find it hard to shut themselves out of their daily hardship to immerse themselves in studies that are difficult and offer no immediate relief to their current problems.

According to psychological theories it is hard to make someone invest in fulfilling needs that are lower on their need pyramid when the higher needs are still not satisfied. In this case the need to fulfill their personal growth potential and invest in a better future is lower than the need for immediate solution for food and shelter.

This is why I think so many kids from low-income families are not doing well in school-they simply have more important things to deal with.

Instead of trying to change the motivation for these kids I suggest finding a method that will help them do both. I suggest a method that will accomplish the goal of improving their education to create a more productive and capable individual as well as help them in their immediate situation.

I suggest that some of the education funds be put aside to directly compensating low-income students on success.

A student will get a salary every month according to his participation / grades and a yearly bonus according to final grades. These salaries will come from both government and private sources and will come from the understanding that students need to get compensated for their effort, even if it is learning. Doing math exercised or learning biology is much harder to most people than flipping burgers. The question is do you want a nation of burger flippers or of scientists? Why would anyone work hard for free when they can work less and get paid?

For students coming from high-income families and for students from low-income families that have demonstrated high achievements, the needs pyramid allows for using other forms of compensation instead of cash. They can be motivated with awards, social recognition, advanced courses and other things they will appreciate.

Low income students can also get cash compensation for creating worksheets and grading lower grade assignments. They will be taught that they can make money from their education.

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November 22, 2009

What if Satan really exists?

Filed under: Articles — Roy Daya @ 03:55

What if Satan really exists? What if in his deception he created the concept of God as a façade to control humans and lead them to total destruction. If we take these two conflicting theories, one that there is a loving and well meaning guiding God and the other that there is an evil entity leading us in deception we have a huge conflict.

With every prayer and every time we follow the scriptures we might be aiding Satan in his plan to bring the human race into destruction.

By assuming there is a God we have the chance to help ourselves be better off or help an evil entity bring sufferings to billions of people and never really know the implications of following these ancient scripts.

Can anyone take the chance and follow these ancient rituals that might have horrible consequences?
Looking at how the world looks like and imagining the massive forces that might be active behind the scenes; I urge all to stop being puppets in a game we cannot see.

If the power of prayer is true we should be careful and not use it as we don’t know the damage we might inflict on others. If there are no powers in prayer then it is meaningless and prayers should be changed to a form of self help affirmations not according to any ancient scripture of unverifiable origins and aim.

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June 23, 2009

Scientology

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 16:40

I saw mentions of Scientology from time to time in different contexts but never actually talked to anyone practicing it until recently.

A few weeks ago, a friend sent me a link to a movie on YouTube about how evil are some pharmaceutical companies, especially ones that develop and sell psychiatric drugs. I did not watch the movie and working with several pharmaceutical companies I could say a few things about this industry but his views were a little too black and white for my taste. My immediate question was if this is Scientology related as the one thing I knew about Scientology is that they have a huge problem with psychiatric drugs. When he said yes I felt excited to know that he is involved with Scientology. I was not excited because I thought I could become an avid follower but because I felt it can be an interesting topic to explore.

I started my quest not with official Scientology materials as I felt I got a good overview from him but with what I could find that looked more like a documentary. Every movie I saw had some kind of motivation behind it and trying to collect crumbs of facts was difficult.

What I found amusing was the hypocrisy of some people. From an observation of human history it is obvious that people have a need to group. Like a giant organism where all cells start equal but then become skin cells or heart cells people bond together and then each finds its natural position.

This is so common that we see it all over. We see it in religions, organizations, corporations, sports fans, media celebrity worship etc. Each of these hierarchical clusters of people is very much like a religion.

The hypocrisy I found was that people can belong to several such groups and label them as good or as evil based entirely on subjective motives.

I know very little about Scientology and I already know that I don’t agree with some of what they say. This is fine. I don’t agree with most of what I hear regardless of who else believes in it.

I am not referring here to the actual Scientology beliefs because of two reasons. The first is that I know almost nothing about them and the second is that like any belief system it is about belief. Hypocrisy is when someone believes in one religion but ridicules another one that in many aspect is more similar to his than different.

It seems that Scientologiests freak out when they are called a cult. I can understand this. Anyone that strongly believes in something feels strongly against outside people accusing him of belonging to something that sounds negative and potentially criminal. Starting a new religion today is very hard and very expensive. It is very easy for someone from the outside to come and ruin everything you work for and believe in by spreading negative claims to fuel his own agenda.

I realize that many people need a religion or another form of a strong social bond. Religions evolve with time much like an organism does. When a religion is young it needs to grow exponentially with limited resources and get to a point that it can sustain itself and feed its growth. For doing this mission impossible you need special people. You need people that are very capable and that can lead and create on a very tight budget and I can appreciate this from my experience with technology startups. You need stars. As the religion evolves and stabilizes it uses much of its energy to conserve and maintain its current assets and growth, although important becomes a task of specialized groups that act as young sub-religions that compete in evolution against other sub-groups. The advantage of evolution is optimization by introducing randomness into a process and induce greater creativity, the danger is that some of the optimizations are not in a direction that is good for the organization in the long run and managing them is not easy without a well thought out process in place and even then.

The word cult refers to the young religion as it molds but it also includes a judgment. If you put a list of behaviors together and call it an evil cult how would you call your army unit? the corporation you work for? your church? your sports team, your extended family or your favorite American idol or even the boy scouts…? If you want to use the word cult than at-least have the decency to admit that we are all involved in several cults at the same time fighting for our attention, devotion and resources for exchange for their acceptance and social and other advantages.

To use a non-judging term I will call Scientology a young religion. Young because in its evolution it seems to be still fighting for its status and recognition. Anyone that thinks that Scientology efforts to grow as a religion are overly aggressive should consult his nearest bible or other religious scripture and see how the other religions behaved when they were young.

People point to Scientology alien related beliefs with judgment and all I say is look at your bible, read it and be amazed at what so many people on this planet believe in. Many people believe that the world is about 5,000 years old when this sounds to me much less plausible than any alien related claim anyone could ever come up with.

So is Scientology good or evil? Scientology is an evolving young belief system. I don’t know if it will survive to make a big impact or not in a historical perspective but I do know one thing. Scientology will evolve to represent the inner wants on its members. As people, whenever we bond together and set strict rules and start marching in synch we end up doing horrible things to other people.

I am not afraid of Scientology. I am afraid of people, people that use the name of a group they belong to, to escape from responsibility for things they know are bad. People that use the power of belief to do bad things.

I only ask new scientologists as they join Scientology to be the next Scientology leaders and the current Scientology leadership to remember that they hold great power in their hands and although it is probably close to impossible to shape the evolution of something like a religion to try to make sure they do more good than harm. To keep history in mind and let’s all pray that 1,000 years from now no Scientology believer will blow himself up in a bus full of children, and not deprive people of their basic rights. We had enough of that with our current religions. I understand that an astronomical amount of money is needed for your religion to survive and take its place in history and that you all believe that the good that it will bring to mankind is worth the sacrifice but please use moderation and don’t take from people more than they can give.

Scientology should do its best as any legitimate group of people united by a joint idea or a set of beliefs to reach all like minded people and represent them in a way that will improve their life but they should also invest the needed resources to set a strong moral foundation of rules and guidelines that deal with the danger of over enthusiastic people that go too far and damage the organization, the membership body and the greater community around it.

I know that I am asking for a lot. Especially when much larger and older religions failed miserably at that and keeping in mind that in the internet age evolution is fast forwarded to the speed of light. Maybe its a call for a group of people to draft a universal set of rules that can serve as a best practice guideline for any religion or organization. This non-religious human behavior  ontology can be used as template and provide an easier way to deal with the problematic sides of human nature and help these organizations in their early evolution.

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May 10, 2009

The Omnipotent and Benevolent God

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 06:20

When I was first introduced to the idea of God, I was told that it is Omnipotent and Benevolent. Omnipotent meant that he is all-powerful or that it can do whatever it wants with no imposed constraints. This brings us to the question of intent. I was promised that God is Benevolent or full of goodness and warmth towards us, its favorite creations.

I see myself as a semi-helpful being. I sometimes try to use my limited power to enhance the life experience of other beings.

If I were both all powerful and all good I would eradicate all evil and suffering.

How is it possible that there is a supreme being that is both omnipotent and benevolent and still there is so much suffering and pain?

Because it is difficult to think about things in the scope of the universe—or even humanity—I want to start by looking at the smallest human experience.

Consider a person with an illness: That person experiences suffering and pain. With no relation to what unforeseen goal or end this may serve, if God is infinitely powerful and infinitely good, would it be possible for it to have the same result with one fraction of a second of pain less for that person?

Some people claim that the world is ordered in a certain way to achieve a long term strategic goal. If God were not all powerful this would make sense, but when something is not limited in its powers it could create a scenario where the same goals are achieved with a fraction of a second of suffering less.

When I see people in pain and obvious agony I wonder if it is possible for an omnipotent and benevolent God to intentionally inflict suffering where its unlimited power could avoid it.

The only logical assertion—and correct me if I am wrong—is that unlimited goodness cannot intentionally create suffering. Unlimited power could easily fix any unintentional suffering caused in the quest of ultimate happiness of us as the dearest creation.

So, there may be a benevolent or omnipotent supreme being, but the combination is impossible. The combination cannot produce the experience of suffering as we experience it, for whatever reason, because there would always be a way to accomplish the same with less suffering when power is not limited, until we would reach no suffering and ultimate universal bliss.

We don’t need to concern ourselves with some grand plan because, as players in this system, even our subjective momentary experience is counted towards universal benevolence.

After realizing that the omnipotent and benevolent God combination is logically impossible with the experience of pain and suffering, we can try to evaluate lesser possibilities for that being.

The options we are left according to the initial quest for God are benevolent but impotent or omnipotent and malevolent or, in simple terms, kind but weak or powerful but nasty. There is also the most obvious option that it does not exist but for argument sake let’s try to analyze this being as if we believe that it does exist.

The benevolent but impotent being—I will not call it God as God was my definition to a being that must be omnipotent—will likely try to enhance our earthly experience as much as it can in its limited powers. It is said that you can assess the gardener’s skills by looking at the garden he keeps. Judging from the amount of suffering and pain in the world and the negative subjective experiences of so many people, this proposed being is not very powerful at all. In fact, the positive experiences, when contrasted with the neutral and negative experiences, do not seem to a casual observer as if there is a major benevolent force affecting the natural occurrence of things. As this benevolent being is good-seeking by nature, it will do its most to inflict as much warmth and kindness on our subjective experience. Would our praying and pleading cause it to act more forcefully on our behalf?—only if it is not benevolent by nature! A benevolent being does not require any pleading to do as much good as it possibly can under its limitations.

To conclude the discussion of the benevolent but impotent being, I will say only that it might exist somewhere doing its best to assist with little global impact. It is not likely motivated differently by our praying as it is benevolent by nature.

Let us now discuss the omnipotent and malevolent being. This may be some kind of a god, as it is omnipotent, but it is not the nice and kind God we pray to. As it is omnipotent, it by definition, implemented its vision to the letter. Not limited by power and time, the possible becomes the exact will. Judging again, by the result and by our subjective experience and those around us, we can see a lot of evil but also a lot of good. It is not likely that an all powerful and evil god implemented its will as it will not likely allow for the goodness we experience. For many experiences we subjectively experience, we can imagine another experience that would hurt us more or torment us even more, even if just a little more, and for a fraction of a second. An all powerful and evil God would not allow for these relative grace moments by its nature.

To conclude the discussion of the malevolent and omnipotent being, I believe that it cannot exist because of a logical contradiction between its nature and our subjective experience of goodness at some point in time. This point in time could be reduced even by a fraction by such a God.

Another possibility is an impotent and malevolent being. It merits the same conclusion as the impotent benevolent being. It may exist, acting according to its nature with limited power and unclear results. As this too is not really God as usually defined, I will simply move on.

As I understand things, not only that the God about whom I was told cannot exist, I also take comfort in the realization that its malevolent version cannot exist as well. All I am left with is to think about other logical possibilities. There are two groups of other alternative beings I need to look at: the omnipotent but indifferent and its lesser possibility, the impotent indifferent, as the first group; the less totalitarian versions, the strategist egoistic omnipotent and strategist egoistic impotent as the second group.

My treatment of the first group is very short. If they exist it is most likely meaningless to us as they don’t care. Omnipotent or impotent, the question of our well being is not on their agenda for the good or for the bad. Is it possible that with pleading and praying we might be able to sway, influence or manipulate these beings to act on our favor? I suggest that it is checked immediately. I will even try to suggest a method of experimentation. We could take a device that simulates coin tosses and see if our praying causes the reading to deviate from what is statistically plausible. If we get no difference we can assess that either these beings do not exist or that they don’t care to the extent that our pleading cannot pierce their apathy. Getting positive results in our experiment with the simulated coin toss will not prove anything really, other than the fact that praying had some correlation with the effect and, as we all know, correlation does not imply causation. Although it will not serve as a proof of any kind or positive results correlated with praying, it can give us something potentially useful to further scrutinize.

My last group of beings left is the strategic or egoistic. These beings are also divided into the omnipotent and impotent. My view is that an egoistic omnipotent would implement its strategy with no relation to what we do. Such a being that is obsessed with a very specific grandiose plan will do whatever it takes to accomplish its goals and as an omnipotent God will accomplish it. As this being is not limited in anyway, nothing we can do can have any effect on its decided course of action, so praying, etc is a pointless waste of time from a practical god-influencing point of view.

The impotent subtype deity is doing its best to implement its ego-driven strategy and, since it is limited in power, its success is not guaranteed. With a being that is not all powerful but acts according to a self motivational strategy, we may have a chance to influence the outcome. Not to influence the plan itself, because by definition this being is self motivated and egoistic, but use our limited power to act with accordance or against such a plan. In this case praying to this being is pointless as is the omnipotent egoistic being scenario since it is motivated by a plan and not by our wants—which is painfully obvious when looking around. The only strategy we must decide on, as I said previously, is whether to use our limited powers to disrupt or assist the plan and affect its success. The problem with deciding what to do is that we have no idea what the plan is. We have many written resources, from various alleged heavenly sources, and they are very different from one another; even for a certain holy book there are countless interpretations. Are we likely to know if any one book is the true representation of the grand plan of the impotent egoistic being? Are the books a real representation of the plan or a set of rules to make us assist the plan? Would such a being disclose the real plan or just the stories that would make us comply and assist the chances of the plan? As a reminder, this being has an interest with its egoistic plan and not with our well being.

I think that our collective effort to enhance our earthly experience is more beneficial to mankind than trying to follow obscure plans with unknown planner or outcome. Moreover, the various scriptures are filled with events that, to say the least, are not kind to people.

Assuming that the conclusion section may not be overly popular with people obsessed with worship, I will save myself from the ill-tempered ones by not writing one. Their hot tempers are, hopefully, accompanied with lack of patience which means they would not read this article to the end. The lack of conclusion is to protect myself from the ones who will skip ahead in attempt to hate me with little effort. Too bad! If you are one of them go back to the second paragraph, or give up and get a life. For the others the conclusion is obvious. Actually this whole article is obvious, but there was some comforting pleasure in the process of writing it down. It all started because I fell asleep in front of the television and woke up to the loud voice of what looked like an Christian preacher of Asian descent, and I realized that he and his broadcasted predecessors infiltrated my dreams for about half of the night. This is my retribution for a night’s sleep that was ruined because of their blubbering.

Those people, who think that worship of imaginary beings is good for our mental well being, need to have their chemical balance restored. The sooner the better for them as well as for the rest of us!

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April 18, 2009

Dreams as flight simulators for the brain

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 11:45

The brain is a sophisticated learning machine. From my experience with my own dreams as well as with stories of dreams told by other people I came up with a theory about the meaning and purpose of dreams. I did not try to carry out any experiments to try to further develop this theory but I can try to suggest such experiments for anyone interested to follow up with this idea.

Speed of a purposeful reaction can mean the difference between life-and-death. Also socially we are constantly judged by our reactions to events. There is a definite advantage to people with the ability to instantaneously react rather then freeze.

I initially thought that dreams are simulators that train the brain with potential events and create preferred decision patterns that serve as reaction templates when awake. Although this may seem as a good idea, it does not represent the content of my dreams as I remember them.

Most of the dreams that I remember are not technical drills such as fixing a car. Nor do they lend themselves as useful for recording steps to some template in my brain. Also, many dreams are invoking deep emotions that are not necessary and even counterproductive for skill training.

The brain is not a computer. A computer is running in a constant and predictable environment. Deviation from ideal conditions will not only reduce performance but might bring a shutdown and potential destruction.

The brain has to perform in unpredictable conditions, especially when hormones are involved. How can the brain manage if at one time 1 + 1 = 2 and at other times 1 + 1 = 5. The brain often is like an archer. It tries to hit a moving target with an arrow but keep missing the mark because of wind. How can this imaginary archer learn to compensate for the wind and hit closer to the target? The answer is experience. Not experience shooting arrows as I first thought but rather experience dealing with the wind.

So my theory is the brain seeks experience with various hormonal and emotional states to learn how to compensate for them in real-life scenarios. This is important in danger where miss-judgment can bring paralysis by a chemical miss-calculation.

The brain uses various images and sounds to provoke hormones and then activates the decision making process, noting the needed corrections. The brain then records the results and creates another experiment after the current hormonal “drugs” have been absorbed. This can explain the dream cycle and the fact that the body paralyzed during dreams to prevent unwanted movement.

Many people have reported lurid dreams after using drugs or hormones such as melatonin and marijuana. This can be explained as the brain realizing there is a change in the hormonal environment and is caching up with its adjustments to better handle decision making in real life under these conditions. The real life effect is that these substances will have less effect on our decision making which will result in some people taking larger doses to maintain the effect of the drug.

I believe that dreaming is the most basic and most primitive training mechanism. As it has low dependency on external stimulation it can be safely carried out in sleep or even in the womb before birth.

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Happiness – What does it take to lead a happy life?

Filed under: Articles — Tags: — Roy Daya @ 11:38

Before I start, let me first note the following disclaimer: I am not an expert on happiness, nor am I an expert in any field of psychology or any other behavioral science. Everything mentioned here was compiled for its entertainment and thought provoking value alone. No research was involved in writing this paper, and I relied mainly on my fading memory and intuition when referencing other work.

In this article I will try to discuss the most basic perceptions of happiness. I will kick a few norms and suggest alternatives. This is by no means a research but rather a set of notes to provoke additional thinking in the topic that interests humanity since its early days – what does it take to live a happy life?

Aristotle set himself to discover the meaning of the good life. After much deliberation and several lengthy books, he concluded the meaning of the good life is happiness. He then tried to explore and define this elusive term. Eternal Happiness (or Eudemonia) Aristotle concluded is achieved by obtaining the golden mean. This measure of things that are not too little and not too much produce that bliss called happiness. Aristotle even gave a real-life example. He said that if eating one chicken is not enough and eating two chickens is too much, then a chicken and a half is the golden mean is the key to a life of happiness. Well, I had plenty of chicken…and I am still not happy.

My introduction is obviously an almost criminal simplification of Aristotle’s lifelong quest for finding the secret to happiness but it demonstrates a key element in his thinking and the thinking of several other well-known philosophers. Namely, building of character and doing good in moderation will sustain a happy life.

From my personal observations (employing a Descartes like inquisitive mood), life consists of long content and discontent periods with flashes of extreme pleasure and despair. The question is how can we promote the frequency and extend these extreme joyful moments.

I will not relate to long-term happiness that can be potentially induced by regular use of religion, meditation, hypnosis, drugs and other psychological alterations to ones state of consciousness. I am looking to explore the happiness potential that can be obtained by the average person leading a normal life.

When trying to analyze the short-term ecstatic state, I looked at all possible combinations for its appearance and analyzed their subjective impact:

•    A time of general content followed by an event driven joyful moment (for example winning a prize or getting positive social recognition).
•    A time of elevated content (for example because of meditation, physical activity or sympathetic environment) followed by an event driven joyful moment.
•    A time of extreme joy followed by an event driven joyful moment (such as with immediately consecutive joyful events).
•    A time of general discontent followed by an event driven joyful moment.
•    A time of elevated discontent (for example because of stress or mild health issues) followed by an event driven joyful moment.
•    A time of extreme sadness (opposite of happiness, such as one created by one or several consecutive traumatic moments) followed by an event driven joyful moment.
•    A joyful moment induced by some direct external momentary stimulation (food, sex, drugs, hormones etc.).

While contrasting possible occurrences of momentary extreme joy, I came up with the following suggestive observations:

•    We are beings of change. Without it we get numb and any extended blissful moments become the new comparison base for our level of content (This is why the rich and famous are not in a constant orgasmic state).
•    The determinant of the intensity of a joyful moment is the delta in change it represents from the previous state as it is perceived by the individual subjective person.
•    These joyful moments are most intensified when they are directly mirroring a previous desperate state (for example testing negative to a disease after a false positive result).
•    Extreme joyful moment can serve as a base for launching subevents that reanimate the feeling of joy from the original event. For example getting a desired career promotion the first event is getting notified by the management and subsequent events are formed when telling co-workers, family and friends. The consecutive events are produced by the animated reaction of new actors. This can explain the “kiss-and-tell” phenomena.
•    An event that causes a joyful moment can originate from new information that changes the perception of our current state. Our internal thought processes using memories, new ideas or reasoning can be used to realize that our state is better than previously realised. For example finding a solution to a problem or remembering the affection of a close friend not currently in our immediate environment.
•    A sympathetic social environment can enable a foundation for creating later events of joy from the original events. They can also help intensify the next event to levels that may even surpass the original event.
•    There is a boundary to the intensity of the joyful events. A spillover mechanism ensures that above a certain level new consecutive events do not intensify the current feeling but only serve as temporary time extenders to the original feeling.
•    Although external or internal events can cause short moments of extreme joy, one has to be open to experience them. Any event has a “joy potential” that may be taken advantage of.
•    Our current state of content or discontent is a result of post analysis of all known events and circumstances as currently analyzed. Old events can produce new happiness only if the opinion about them changes. For an event to create an extreme joyful moment it must bring new information into our view.
•    The less we expect the result of an event, the smaller its expected change delta and thus the greater is its joy creation potential. For Example passing a test where we assume we have passed has less happiness potential then passing a test we assumed we did poorly on.
•    Joyful moments can also result from direct stimulation such as a massage, food, drugs, hormonal excitement etc.

Based on the results from my subjective inferences, I will try to set a few rules to increase the length and intensity of happiness in ones life. And no, it does not have anything to do with eating chicken (for most people that is).

•    Keep your life in constant change. This is the only way to insure a high delta.
•    Keep the changes random. Less predicted events produce more happiness.
•    Socially commit to perform feats and perform them with no real preparation. This will give you pleasure from the commitment event and will add doubt that will increase happiness from any achievements. Even if the results are not satisfactory there is a social contract to keep trying and produce a better result. This will create both initial satisfaction as well as secondary waves of happiness from people that have experienced your early failure. This also has the mirroring effect mentioned above. The idea is to actively create opportunities for events that can produce joyful moments.
•    Keep a network of supporters who can provide the infrastructure for secondary events. Experience these secondary events in succession rather than grouping all these people in one room and limiting the number of secondary events = more joyful moments. Seek to separate and ungroup secondary events. Gossipers are addicted to the rush of after waves as they circulate news to one target at a time to preserve the momentary high experienced with the uninformed target at the moment of revelation.
•    When wasting time at places where new events are rare, dwell into past events and ideas and try to create a new and useful understanding that can create a joyful moment by itself and many more when shared.
•    Be actively open to and seek events that have a “joy potential”. Be excited and excitable whenever possible.
•    When everything else fails use temporary direct stimulation such as a massage, food, drugs, hormonal excitement etc. Instead of simply viewing these times as instant and short lasting joys, try to extend these into following events. For example use the current state as a driver to other random events or finding a creative way to extend its perceived use.

This last bonus section although obvious, can serve as a wake-up call to some and needs to be spelled out. I will try to take my theory to the extreme opposite and give a recipe for lessening ones joy potential and living a miserable life:

•    Keep a constant routine, if you improve your life style do it slowly, predictably and in moderation to numb the effect.
•    Rarely share your thoughts and ideas with other people.
•    Stay in contact with a few like-minded people.
•    Whenever you have good news that needs to be communicated, gather everybody and tell them all at the same time. Tip 1 - make sure you let them wait long enough before the announcement to bore them and lessen any real spontaneous excitement that may have built up. Tip 2 – try to let the word out before the gathering so people will already know what the announcement is.
•    Whenever possible, listen to the news or read a newspaper. Dwell often on sad events from the past or mentally prepare for sad events in your future.
•    Keep a serious and sealed expression and seem unapproachable to people you don’t know.
•    Rarely indulge yourself in pleasurable activities.

Now what?

Have a great and happy life!

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